Monday, June 2, 2014

Super Smart or Totally Crazy?!




Here in our state you can start taking Driver's Ed when you are 14 years 9 months. I personally think that is a bit too young.  For the last few months, we knew that our oldest was going to take her class this June.  She is 17.   She was one of those kids who just was not in any hurry.  She did not feel ready, and that was fine with us.  For insurance and other reasons, you really should take phase 1 (book class with 6 hours of driving) before you turn 18.  Until this weekend, the plan was Kyle would wait a few more months or so, and then take it when it  was his turn.   He turned 15 in April.  


On Friday while we were at his Robotics Awards banquet, Kyle told us that he wanted to learn how to drive as soon as possible. Over the  last few months he would say he didn't care, so this news  kind of came as a surprise.   After talking it over, we decided maybe he should take the class with his sister if there was an opening for him.  On the plus side, they would be able to be each others driving partner during their driving time.   Another plus to them learning to drive  at the same time, is we would only have to worry about one session of driver's ed during summer break instead of two. (Book class is two hours a day, 4 days a week, over 3 weeks)  I guess the only down side would be I will have double the worry as they both drive me around for the next several months.   I called this morning, and they had an opening.  I guess it is was meant to be. This decision is either super smart or totally crazy!   By the time I will recover from this, it will be time for child number three to take her turn. 

I truly think this is one of the scariest things about raising teenagers! 



Kyle gives his approval while sitting in the driver's seat for the first time. I was actually surprised at how natural he looked behind the wheel.  Today was not quite so scary as the car was sitting in the driveway. We will see how I feel in a few weeks, when he is actually driving! 

6 comments:

  1. oh good lord. I have a kid who is almost 14 but looks 18 and he keeps joking I should just let him drive himself ( to whatever annoying place he wants to go) can't really imagine letting him drive that young

    Then I have a 16 year old who still doesn't have her permit because she is too busy studying for the SAT's and I suspect too terrified to drive

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    1. Sounds a lot like our house. I am sure my oldest would not mind waiting even longer, but she graduates next year and wants to get a job. She knows I am not always going to be available to take her where she wants to go. I told her there is no pressure to get her license right away, but she at least needs to take the class.

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  2. I never wanted to drive because when I was 13 I was hit by a car. But when I turned 17 my parents forced me to take a course. It scared the daylights out of me. To this day I only ride with drivers whom I know are capable.
    I'd be absolutely terrified when the time comes and my daughter wants to learn.

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    1. I can understand why you are so cautious. I just wish a lot more drivers (especially teens) were more so, since I have seen a lot of crazy drivers out there.

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